Mercury in the 12th house: You Don't Know How Smart You Are

One of the smartest people I've ever known grew up thinking she was the family idiot. 

I studied with her for years, and I had no idea. I knew her as a musical genius who studied at a famous conservatory and played in symphonies on TV before we reached high school.

While the rest of us struggled to balance ordinary teenage stuff with our academic work, she juggled school and an actual career. While the rest of us stayed up late to study for tests and came to school exhausted, she came to class looking well-rested and happy.

Everyone at school admired her intelligence. I paid extra attention when she spoke up in class. She didn't talk much, but her voice was worth waiting for because what she shared was always insightful. 

But she walked into school and saw pictures of her family members on the wall, prestigious doctors, professors, Ivy League graduates. No musicians. No quiet genius. She measured herself by a standard that said you had flashy academic credentials or no worth at all. 

The biggest challenge for Mercury in the 12th house is a lack of perspective.

Lack of perspective isn’t just a Mercury problem. It is a challenge for every planet in the 12th house. They all struggle to see themselves clearly in different ways. 

For Mercury, lack of perspective is especially painful, however. It may be the most difficult part of having Mercury in the 12th house. Mercury is the planet of perception, so lack of perspective is a direct threat to Mercury’s basic function. 

As a person with Mercury in the 12th house, this challenge with perception isn’t as simple as needing to “face reality.” It is common for people with Mercury in the 12th house to be raised in environments where their particular style of intelligence is not highly valued. You may find yourself in a situation similar to my musician friend, who struggled to value her own intelligence because of her family’s assumptions.

Partly, the Mercury in the 12th house experience represents a long-standing issue in our culture.

For a long time, intelligence was synonymous with IQ. You were able to get high scores on a test of reasoning ability, or you weren't. Your intellectual value came down to your score. 

In the late 20th century, psychology started to diversify its understanding of intelligence. We began to understand that IQ tests aren’t universal measures of intelligence. They are biased against people from particular social backgrounds. Psychology also began to recognize that intelligence is about more than the ability to reason logically. The ability to respond to others with empathy and diplomacy is a type of intelligence. A surgeon's hands and a basketball player's feet have their own intelligence. A person might struggle with math but write gorgeous sonnets, and that is a form of intelligence. 

You may have grown up in a family or culture that didn’t value your intelligence, but you don’t have to stay with that limiting understanding of yourself. Astrology recognizes 12 basic styles of intelligence that correspond with Mercury signs, and there are people out there who value them all. 

In the game of life, your intelligence is a much needed gift to your adventuring party, and astrology can help you get perspective on who your people are and what you have to offer.

I wrote more about how to find your people in my article “Finding Your Adventuring Party with Astrological Archetypes.” 

Mercury in the 12th house is a gift in disguise. 

We all know the trouble with low self-esteem and underestimating yourself, but underestimating your own intelligence can actually be a gift. 

My musician friend may not have had perspective on her place in the intellectual pecking order at school, but her humility saved her from arrogance, and we loved her for it. Many of her peers struggled to form relationships, nurture friendships, and gather allies; but she had friends everywhere she went because she assumed that she wasn’t the smartest person in the room. 

When you don't start out thinking you know everything, you are more open to learning. You are more likely to listen when others speak. You are more open to other perspectives. When you assume that you have a lot to learn, it isn't a threat to you when you don't know everything. 

When you don't believe that you are talented, you know that you have to rely on your skills, and you aren't afraid to work hard. My friend from high school was able to balance her workload more easily than the rest of us because the standard had always been high for her at home, and she was used to working hard. Many of her peers were lazy. We had a habit of using our intelligence to get through our assignments quickly. When things got difficult, we weren't used to working hard, and we suddenly started to struggle, not just to learn the material, but with the effort of working hard at all. 

All of these qualities of Mercury in the 12th house exist as potential in anyone with this placement, but it doesn’t mean that expressing them will be easy. Not everyone is as easy-going as my musician friend!

I would like you to see the picture I’m painting here as potential. The qualities of humility, openness, and hard work can be tools in your toolbox, tools that you can pick up anytime and learn how to wield.

If you are struggling with Mercury in the 12th house, I would love to help you develop a strategy for working with it. Book a Tea With An Astrologer Reading to start the conversation.

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